Accepting Change

At some point of time in our life, we all had the feeling when we wished things didn't have to change? We all wish that we didn't have to let go of a healthy relationship shared between the two, our beloved didn't have to move to another city, our office colleagues who after becoming an integral part of our lives didn't have to switch jobs, or we as kids didn't have to grow up. At that time we feel that we are helpless because we aren't able to stop those changes coming our way.


We like familiarity and we like things the way they are and we wish that we didn't have to move on.


We don't like changes and at times feel difficult to adapt to any kind of changes because it throws us out of our most comfortable world into a less familiar world. That doesn't mean change is a bad thing for us. We know that change is good. We know that our society thrives on change and those changes are exciting and point towards a better future. We know that if we don't keep up with the society we will quickly fall behind and be left holding an empty bag. Also in the recent times the pace of change has accelerated tremendously.  We all need to find ways to deal with this fact of life. One must learn to manage change in a very constructive way. 


From all ups and downs that I have experienced in the last 12 months, I understood that 'to not to change is to quit growing', I have started seeing life much more seriously than before, I have my goals to achieve which I believe, would be possible only by accepting changes.  People have to change. That's the only way each of us can grow, become the people we were meant to be. That's the only way we can get more our of life.

Things I love about myself

Its 00:30 am and I am trying to list down things I love about myself. I must admit, this is a hard one. It is easier to find all the wrong things than it is to find something good, but since I have decided to list it down, here we go..

• I have started knowing myself.
• I have a purpose in my life and I am working to make up for my inadequacies.
• I am feeling more matured.
• I can make excellent friends.
• I do not expect favours in return.
• I am selfless.
• I love freedom…I actually make decisions based on the amount of freedom given to me.
• Friends can count on me.
• I am always loyal to my true friends.
• I know a little bit about a lot of things.
• If I'm wrong, I will apologize.
• Friendship is very important to me.
• I have learned to say 'No, I'm sorry I can't ...."
• I believe in God.
• I believe that God doesn't have to be found in temples/churches/Mosques.
• I can take pretty good pictures.
• I don’t like to interfere in other people’s plans.
• I am never jealous of anything.
• I have a good sense of humour.
• I always speak my mind, very much straightforward and don’t hold anything back.
• I am optimistic and positive.
• I am very faithful to the one’s I love.
• I love to read books and learn things from what I read.
• I have started to enjoy writing.
• I am polite.
• I respect other people’s feelings.
• I am learning to let go things that are beyond my control.
• I get emotionally connected to songs.
• I have started learning from my experiences no matter if they are good ones, or bad.
• I try to share my love to the best of my ability.
• I am open-minded and I consider all possibilities.
• I have a strong intuition.
• It is very impossible for me to be fake.
• I can make people laugh pretty easily.
• My family is very much important to me.

Want to try this out?  It’s harder than you think. I’d love to see your good things. If you participate, please leave your link in the comments here on this post.

My First Blog

Hello friends, I am finally here. Welcome to my first Blog...
The pressure is on.
I am sure none of my friends would have ever imagined of me writing a blog. Its shocking for me as well...:-)

I have been following some blogs on the internet for quite some days now. I have started writing blogs for some reasons. Firstly, I am enjoying reading other people's blogs. Secondly, I have started to enjoy writing and the third I guess its time to share my weird, touching and random thoughts for all to read.
There are many things I plan to write about, hopefully it will come in the later posts.

I fully intend on regularly updating my blog. Check back again soon for another completely random sample of the things rattling around in my head. Hopefully, will come out with some nice posts.